I don’t have a definition for love: Shahid


Since his filmi debut in 2003, Shahid Kapur has “seen both good times and bad times” and says he’s now a changed man. He talks more, tweets more and undercuts your perfectly serious questions with unexpected and witty one-liners. We met him late one night and realised that there’s no winning a contest of words with the new Shahid.

‘I’ve become dangerously fun’
He’s received rave reviews for his performance and anchoring at a recent award show, even from Shah Rukh Khan. “Yes,” says Shahid, “I’ve received a few messages. I’m actually a very shy person. But of late, I’ve discovered a fun side to myself, which existed somewhere deep inside. Now it’s becoming dangerously fun. Ha ha.” Shahid also shares an equation with SRK, beyond the usual cinematic comparisons. He says, “Shah Rukh bhai – Shah Rukh Khan – dealt with me on the show like an elder brother. He’s amazingly witty on stage. I hosted four segments and performed to Dhan Te Nan, my favourite song of the year. This is the first show I hosted and I enjoyed myself thoroughly.”

‘Genelia is the perfect heroine for love stories’
Shahid believes that his co-star in UTV’s Chance Pe Dance, Genelia D’Souza, helped him improve his performance in the flick and was perfect for the role. He says, “I think Genelia is the perfect heroine for love stories. She’s got the perfect balance of being charming and endearing. She’s coming into her own now. She has done some brilliant work in the South.”

‘My Goa trip was with my best buddy Sriram. I can vouch that Sriram is not a hot girl”
Much has been spoken and written about Shahid’s New Year trip to Goa. But all that just amuses him. He says, “I’m also looking for the hot girl whom I went with. It was hot and there were lots of girls. The two were not combined. The trip was fun. I just bought a new Range Rover and I was excited about taking it out. Although I was there for just three days, it was great fun. I went with my friend Sriram, who, I can vouch, is not a hot girl. I’ve known him for 18 years and I have seen him in pretty much everything and nothing.”

‘Ken rejected me, said I looked like a broom. But then he realised his mistake and cast me’
Just like his character Samir Bahl in Chance Pe Dance, Shahid too was a struggling newcomer and was rejected many times. He says, “There is a scene in Chance Pe Dance which was exactly what happened with me too. The character is emoting a scene when the director stops him and says, ‘Cut. Thanks. We’ll get back.’ It happened with me. Ken rejected me. He said I look like a broom and not like a hero. A year later, Ken realised his mistake, cast me and has made all his films after that with me. You never know which opportunity takes you where. When life throws a chance at you, grab it with both hands.”

‘If there’s a future left after this flick, I’m doing...’
We ask him what projects keep him busy after Chance Pe Dance, and Shahid says, “If there’s a future left... agar future mein kaam mila toh karenge. But immediately after this, it will be Pathshaala, a small but sweet film. I’m not a hero, mine is a special appearance, about 40 minutes long. But it’s special to me because it’s produced by Shaira Khan, choreographer Ahmed Khan’s wife. Ahmad did Dhan Te Nan with us. He is a very close buddy, almost like family. The film is about the education system in the country. Then, my next is with Anushka Sharma and directed by Parmeet Sethi. But this year is dedicated to my father’s film. I am playing an Air Force officer and it’s a love story.”

‘I don’t think I know anything beyond cinema’
Shahid lives life in technicolour and likes it that way. And at the moment, he only wants to focus on 70mm and says, “I want to learn how to cook and how to play the guitar. I already know a bit of photography. In fact, on the sets of CPD, I took a few pics of Genelia while she was in a shot.”

‘I do not have a definition for love’
Shahid is unfailingly in the news for his love life. Have such things change his views on love? Says Shahid, “I don’t have a definition for love. I think it’s something which happens... it is something beautiful. When I get an innocent peck from a ten-year-old child and there’s a smile on his face, when my mum gives me a hug when I’m tired, that’s love. When my father looks in my eyes, and says, ‘Beta, I’ve found the subject of the film which I will make with you as an actor and myself as the director.’ I see love there. So love exists in all forms.”

‘I’m pretty settled right now. How much more do you want me to settle down?’
There’ve been reports that Shahid’s asked his parents to look for a girl for him. To this, he says, “I look pretty settled. How much more do you want me to settle down? I had just said that in jest. Everyone is trying to pin me down with somebody. People see anyone raasta chalte, they say, ‘Isko Shahid ke saath connect kar do, shayad kuch ho jaaye.’ I tell Genelia every day, koi ladki hai, achhi, sundar, sushil, sadharan?”


Posted by Sarah • Interviews41 comments




1. Meena | January 30 2010 - 23:34


hey shahid,if u r lonely wihout love,the best partner for u is amrita rao,match made in heaven,she is such a sweet and pure girl,u shud propose to her and do more films with her


2. sophie | January 30 2010 - 23:36


shahid i agree with meena,amrita and u are made for each other,dont care abt what others say,she has been always lucky for u, u say she is ur fav costar,pls we want to see u both together onscreen and offscreen


3. sam | January 30 2010 - 23:39


O GOD MAKE SHAHID AND AMRITA REALISE THAT THEY R MADE FOR EACH OTHER


4. Neha | January 30 2010 - 23:49


Shahid and Priyanka make a perfect couple! they're just made 4 eachothr. I wish they fight less & Sasha spends more time with pee feee.


5. shaahin | January 31 2010 - 00:59


shahid and rani make a hot and great and best couple together in real life and movies


6. shamrita | January 31 2010 - 01:46


hey guys nothing against anyone,but PC will do the same she did to harman,she is not right for shahid, i want only AMRITA(PREM AND POONAM),we miss u


7. shruthi | January 31 2010 - 02:33


if shahid wants a simple,sweet and extremely pure girl then it is only amrita rao


8. shruthi | January 31 2010 - 02:34


shahid,pls dont date date PC,she is now with gerald butler in New york,dirty girl


9. santosh | January 31 2010 - 02:35


i think what PC did to harman is dishonest,vidya is too ols and rani is with adi,so best is amrita or perhaps anushka


10. | January 31 2010 - 02:35


shahid luks bst wid amrita
& he is bst


11. navneet | January 31 2010 - 02:43


i agree with santosh if shahid dates PC then he wud be another saif,if saif snatched kareena from him then is he going to snatch PC frim harman


12. navneet | January 31 2010 - 02:44


i wud accept shahid with anyone except PC,now she is with gerald butler,what a girl she is


13. anu | January 31 2010 - 02:45


can anyone tell me why shahid is following deepika,genelia,tamanah and parinethi on twitter and not amrita,anushka,and PC


14. preethi | January 31 2010 - 02:46


shahid,if u want ur life partner to be faithful,loyal,pure,sweet and supportive then go for amrita or is u want it to be hell then go for priyanka chopra


15. saki | January 31 2010 - 02:47


i agree ,PC is not the right person,she is bossy and will make shahid's life miserable


16. fatima | January 31 2010 - 03:08


i love shahid and amrita together onscreen and offscreen,i hope they get married


17. fatima | January 31 2010 - 03:50


we really miss u both together,why shahid dont u wan to work with amri,u say she is ur fav costar but why dont u cast her in mausam,recreate the magic of ishk vishk and vivah


18. essy | January 31 2010 - 03:55


When the time comes, pretty sure shahid will make the right choice and marry a wonderful girl :)
who wont LEAVE HIM HANGING!! *cough KAREENA cough* >:|

shahid is amazingggg <3 and he sees things from a beautiful perspective.

every guy should be like him!!

but so far, him and genelia look AMAZING together


19. shaahin | January 31 2010 - 09:49


shahid and rani best and hot and amaizing and wonderfoll pair and chemistry in real lif and movies


20. Mona | January 31 2010 - 16:15


i hope he finds a sweet good girl .love

all the good luck to sasha for his career and personal life too .smile


21. melissa | January 31 2010 - 19:50


i think if you keep your heart open to love, it will find its way to you. and that love with be pure, true, sincere, honest, and worth it <3

this is not just to comment on shahid, but this is for those who dont believe that they will find their true love.... becuz there comes a time when you have to give it a shot... after all, im still looking !


22. Prabhdeep | January 31 2010 - 20:16


ya Shahid and Amrita should go out they look sooooooooooo good together!!!!!!!!!!!


23. sahmru | January 31 2010 - 21:58


I agree with shamrita fans,i respect PC,rani alot as actresses but pri is never honest and rani is too old,pls shahid ,amrita will make u happy,we want u to be happy


24. abi | January 31 2010 - 22:01


i agree shahid u shud marry a simple and pure girl like amrita and show kareena that u can live so happily wihout her,but if u make a wrong choice for a girl like PC then????


25. sudhir | February 01 2010 - 00:58


my dear pals,sumone told me that it was amrita rao who gave aways shahid the best actor award at ssa,is it true,sumone tell me cause u havent seen it yet


26. navneet | February 01 2010 - 10:08


shahid does not look nice wid anyone...........excpet kareena but now shes wid saif so acording to me shahid looks gud alone because if he has some1 in his life he will be bussy with his gf and not on his movies.....??so he wont have gud releases


27. | February 01 2010 - 13:08


hey guys please i want shahids email im from arab world and isaw him in film after that i saw his videos and i mad about him
so shahid f you read this messege i want u to know who much i like u
i told all my friends about u so they called me miss shahid hahahah so please i want your email because am so far
ooooooooh i forgot my name is alaa idont know who you say it in indan language
i wail reply and your mail :)


28. Priya | February 01 2010 - 18:14


@alaa i don't think he has a public e-mail. but he is really on twitter. His username is @shahidkapoor. i hope this helps. and i tweeted him a lot and he has always mosty replied to them. So it think you connect with him on twitter. That is like the only realiable source i know. i am also crazy about him. love him a lot.


29. anusha | February 02 2010 - 01:49


hey shahid u have been tweeting that u are insomniac well u r missing love,pls choose the right girl otherwise she will giv u a heart break again, acc to me if i were u i wud choose AMRITA RAO,UR ETERNAL ONSCREEN PARTNER OR PERHAPS ANUSHKA BUT SHE IS TOO YOUNG FOR U,I WUD NEVER CHOOSE PRIYANKA,SHE IS LIKE HELL


30. nihari | February 02 2010 - 09:25


luv shahid and amrita together


31. | February 04 2010 - 02:02


Sash U n PC make an awefum couple! You're like both made for eachother. I just pray one thing 2 God "RAB DA BI RAB KOI HONA, KARE WOH KOI JADDU TONNA..MANN JAYE MANN JAYE WOH TERA SONA" LUV U SHAHID & PC. Hope all is well b/w u n her n if not den all of shahid online membs including me shud bribe God 4 evrythin 2 be good b/w da 2 of u! SHAYANKA ARE A COUPLE MADE IN HEAVEN!:)


32. amritashahid | February 04 2010 - 06:57


hey shahid,i luv u only with amrita because she is unconditionally loveable, i was happy that u broke up with that stupid karrena and i never liked priyanka, Amrita is the only girl, very reliable and trustable u can take home to ur mom


33. | February 04 2010 - 13:59


Hello dear amritashahid... i gues u need 2 go thru the series "Perfect Bride" to know wht amrita is as a person. I doubt if aftr watchin it u'll feel da same. I dont think Amrita had the bestest advises 2 offr 2 da gurls r help da mums in anyway in tht shw. So dont really have a v.good impression of her. Shahid & Priyanka r just awesome.No matter wht Der made 4 eachothr!


34. star4ever | February 05 2010 - 11:17


Yaa.. Shahid,there is one girl, with d qualities u ask for. U need not search for.She is your long time friend. Like Rajeev Mathur, u look for other source, ultimately return back disappointed. Life partner should be loving & caring soul-mate, trust & believe u, accept u as u are,ready to give up. Listen to your heart man, don't go for glitter & shine. Surely u will get your soul mate.....LOVE U SHAHID..... ALL D BEST ShaSha


35. | February 09 2010 - 06:25


«really one day while talking with my friends about Shahid Kapoor i say he represent the love with the pure and total meaning of the word and know after reading this article i am sure that he is the love i mean Shahid=love as he really discover the pure love with all its shapes and pictures »
ohbaby


36. | February 09 2010 - 07:39


SHAHID and PRIYANKA are a hot and sexy pair . I like them much and hope they became a big supersstar .
so i wish you god luck and fun in your life time.

YOUR BIG FAN EVER SANAM


37. | February 09 2010 - 12:01


thanxs so much my dear priya and thanxs for your advise baby :)


38. | February 13 2010 - 09:23


i like (shahid+amrtha)
priyanka+shahid
genalia+shahid xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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39. | February 18 2010 - 02:24


hey Shahaid
this is da 1st time in my life i m posting a comment 4 a film star n i m really happy n great full dat it's u.......
luk according 2 me if u r really really true n fair from ur side in ur love relationship den dat day is not so far ven u meet sumone n ur heart says "yes dis is da one". So b very happy bcoz if u stay happy u feel dat ur life is very gud...bey take care


40. shanelia | February 26 2010 - 16:59


i think shahid and genelia is the perfect match.....................but i also think that whomever he wants to marry it is his choice......oh and shahid..........HAPPY BELATED B'DAY....luv you soooooooo muchlove


41. | March 09 2010 - 06:18


Hi Shahid i tink u & Amrita make da perfect match both offscree and on... wen ar u guyz gona make another VIVAH... my all time fav movie..

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